Quote Originally Posted by Jarhead5811
I mean spending money on something cool like a body, lens or a flash is one thing but filters, gels, stands, batteries, memory cards, software, hard drives, Flickr account, Radio Triggers, etc...

It's all about quid pro quo. []As long as you keep the number of camera bags you have lower than the number of purses she has, it's fine. Want a new bag? Go shopping for a purse first. Need a CPL? How about a nice new pair of polarized sunglasses for her, first? Then she can see firsthand the benefits of polarization.