One thing I would add is that most people are more concerned with "background blur" than DoF. So even though 85mm f/2 and 135mm f/2 have the same DoF when framed similarly, the 135mm f/2 has noticeably more background blur (technically, it only has higher magnification of the background, but at f/2 it's probably blurry, and therefore more blurry than the 85mm).