I've got the 50mm 1.4 and an XSi. Unless you shoot things far away, and in low-light, I'd have to recommend the 50mm. I use my 50mm a lot (it's my only decent glass right now), and I'm finding it a little long for indoor group shots, etc.
I was having the same questions before I brought the 50, and I have no regrets about getting it. On a 1.6x body, the 85mm would just be too long for me. Love my 50mm 1.4 though, it's SOOO sharp, and you can shoot almost anything with just available light.
Plus, the 50mm is faster, but you may not be an apeture whore like me.